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Stumbling Blocks (and why I became afraid)

March 25, 2018 by Barb 12 Comments

Stumbling blocks (and why I became afraid)

stum·bling block:
noun; a circumstance that causes difficulty or hesitation
synonyms: obstacle, difficulty, problem, hindrance, snag

About a year ago my blogging mojo took a huge dive (in case you hadn’t noticed) and I’ve been puzzling over it ever since. As time went on and no posts were forthcoming, it became harder and harder to show up in this space. I felt empty, depleted.

The good news is I didn’t lose interest in my photography, but Instagram took over my life. Instagram became the perfect microblogging outlet, which in turn, contributed to the lack of posting here.

So to be honest with you my readers, I thought I’d share a few insights as to what has prevented me from blogging (beginning last June)

loss of a family member
minor health issues
blog issues
losing my IT guy and not being able to find another one (my behind-the-scenes blog issues are messy! and I hate that)
SEO pressures … always, always, trying to optimize for Google is exhausting
a few unsubscribes from my newsletter
feeling overwhelmed by other blogs which I deemed were better/more interesting than mine
not knowing what to write about that could possibly be different, and/or interesting
after at least one incident last autumn, I became fearful of people stealing images and content in ways I couldn’t challenge (this is a big one for me)
Instagram is easier and more engaged :(

So there you have it dear friends. I don’t know what I’m going to do about it, but clearly I’m not ready to let my little blog go. A few of my “stumbling blocks” have been resolved (thankfully) and I do feel slightly more inspired these days. So here’s hoping!

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Gratitude

September 17, 2017 by Barb 1 Comment

The other day after a difficult dentist appointment, I stopped in a parking lot to gather my thoughts, and before I knew it my eye was drawn to a few tansy peeking through a fence.

There are not many left out there in late September, and I was delighted! I snapped them off (I didn’t have my clippers) and rushed home to play ;)

September does that to me… everything becomes a little more precious, a little more intense.

And so I thought I’d write a “Gratitude” post.

I’m grateful for:

finding tansy in a parking lot in late September
an abundance of apples from my friends’ orchard
autumn leaves
hot coffee and/or tea
being able to make a quick run to a grocery store and buying whatever I want
baking apple crisp
the smell of dinner in the oven
the furnace kicking in on a frosty autumn morning
travelling with my hubby
arriving home safely
sleeping and recuperating after travelling
my family

What are you grateful for today? I hope you have a good one!

Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life.
It turns what we have into enough, and more.
It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity.
It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend.
Melodie Beatty

Field Guide to Everyday Magic Blog Hop

August 24, 2017 by Barb

Hello, and welcome to the Field Guide to Everyday Magic Blog Hop hosted by Bella Grace Magazine!

The hop consists of a group of about 15 writers who are willing to share their ideas, stories, and photography to help launch the new field guide (and I’m beyond thrilled and truly gob-smacked to be included!)

Inspired by its sister publication, Field Guide to Everyday Magic is filled entirely with the worksheet-style prompts, captivating photographs, and inspirational quotes that Bella Grace Magazine has come to be known for
~Bella Grace Magazine~

I hope my contribution today inspires you in some small way, and if my words resonate with you, please make sure to leave a comment to become eligible to win a copy* of this beautiful guide. PLEASE NOTE: CONTEST IS NOW CLOSED

I Will Not be Afraid and What to Do in Case of Fear (My Story)

It was autumn, about two years ago, when I first started thinking about how easy it is to become afraid of anything and everything.

I remember the morning so clearly; I’d headed out on my usual walk along the secluded country road I call home, the unconfirmed report that a cougar had been spotted in the area running through my head.

It was clear, peaceful, and beautiful as ever.I stood quietly, listening to the rustle of leaves and peering into the shadows of our beautiful boreal forest. I scanned the tops of the trees (cougars are a cat, after all) but only saw a friendly raven. It croaked a quick “hello” and flew off.

I pushed the thought of the cougar to the back of my mind until I rounded the bend where I could no longer see our house.

I stopped. A flicker of unease ran through me.

The road ahead was deserted but that cougar was definitely prowling around (if only in my head) and I couldn’t control my fearful thoughts: cougars stalk their prey … you never see them coming … they can run at speeds of 60-80 km/hr …

I suddenly wanted to turn around and go back, so I knew I had a decision to make. Was I going to turn back to the safety of my home and become a prisoner of my fears? or was I going to continue on my walk and remain free? After a few minutes of inner struggle, a small voice whispered “I will not be afraid.”

Was it possible there could be a cougar lurking in the area? Yes of course. Was it likely? Not really. I’d heard of cougar attacks on humans and the thought is horrific. (Note: after a bit of research I found there has been only one fatal attack in Alberta since 2000 and it was in the mountains.) I do not want to trivialize that terrible statistic, but how likely was it that it would happen to me, on this day, in this place? Not likely.

I went ahead and finished my walk that day, even taking a shortcut through the trees where a beautiful path winds its way to the lake. It wasn’t that I didn’t feel a tiny bit apprehensive (I did), but my bigger fear became how my world would shrink if I gave in!

Don’t let your fears distort your thoughts to the point they paralyze you …As I stood taking in the gorgeousness, I thought about other things that have scared me throughout life: plane crashes, illness, bear attacks, people attacks …

Our biggest fears are related to things that are difficult to predict (and I might add, control)
~Philosopher and Psychiatrist Damiaan Denys~

Later I decided to purchase bear spray and bear bells and I now carry them in a small backpack whenever I walk. It’s a small bit of reassurance and gives me a sense of having control … especially over my fears.

Does this mean I am never afraid? Of course not. Not ever being afraid is not possible. Our brains are hardwired to see threats everywhere, but I take steps to minimize wild imaginings, and move ahead despite the fear.

What to do in case of fear:

sit down with a cup of tea and write down your fears
analyze (what are the chances?)
prepare (carry bear spray)
trust (all will be well)
have faith (faith makes you feel strong)
stay quietly strong and repeat “I will not be afraid”
move forward

What are some of your fears, and how do you deal with them? I’d love to hear!

Simply leave a comment on this blog post by Thursday, August 31/2017 to become eligible to win one free copy of Field Guide to Everyday Magic.

*Please note: contest is open to U.S. residents. International participants are eligible to receive a free digital edition of Bella Grace. But wait! I also have a secret surprise of my own to send to a runner-up no matter where you live, and I know you’ll love it ;)

I’ve had a lot of worries in my life, most of which never happened
~Mark Twain~

Many thanks to Bella Grace Magazine for including me in this blog hop and for generously providing me with a copy of the guide for the contest.

Good luck everyone!

*DISCLAIMER:

This is simply a personal account. Do not attempt an activity of any kind based on this blog post. Exercise caution in all activities and do so at your own risk. Keeping With the Times does not accept responsibility for anything related to this story.

COMMENTS CLOSED! WINNER TO BE ANNOUNCED MONDAY SEPTEMBER 4th!

15 Ideas to Help Make Your August Amazing

August 1, 2017 by Barb 34 Comments

Hello and good morning! As promised in my post of July 31st, I’ve compiled a list of 15 ideas to help make your August amazing . And because I’m going easy on myself this month, I decided to only come up with 15—as opposed to 31 (which would be my usual.)

Many of these I can hardly wait to accomplish, and some will be a bit of a challenge … as in the tent one (I may sleep in our new trailer instead ;)

15 Ideas to Help Make Your August Amazing

Buy bottles of bubbles and spend a morning photographing them as you blow them into the light! If you have children or grandchildren to help you … all the better! If not, just place your camera on a tripod, set the timer, and bubble away!
Visit greenhouses and shop for mid-season clearance items, or for new arrivals such as late summer coneflowers, huge pots of mums, and dazzling dahlias. I used to restrict my flower purchases to spring, but now stores like Home Depot are bringing in fresh pots (and ideas) daily.
Cut back flower pots that have become leggy and fertilize with a 15-15-30. My daughter gave me this tip, which she learned from a horticulturist at Lowes. This will give your plants a huge boost and make for an amazing last hurrah!
Visit U-Picks for fresh veggies, berries, and fruits … these days a person doesn’t have to have a garden to enjoy the bounty that surrounds us!
Shop local craft stores and/or attend markets (post coming soon)
Shop the ditches!! I’m surrounded by wildflowers that make the most amazing bouquets! We have tansy, fireweed, cow parsley, clover, purple vetch, chamomile, oxeye daisies, and grasses growing with wild abandon. Just a word of caution though—you might want to check a wildflower guide or search online to make sure it’s OK to pick a certain species. On my foraging adventures I also see wild orchids and tiger lilies and I am well aware they are not to be picked. Not only is it illegal, but it’s also just not right. Everything I pick is a “noxious weed”.
Make bouquets using only 3 items and sprinkle them around your house.
Have a picnic in your own back yard, on a blanket, under the trees. Gather up a few lighthearted books, and magazines, and a pillow (just in case.)
Sleep in a tent in your own back yard. Make it as comfortable possible (even drag a mattress outside if necessary ;)
If you’re in North America, mark this date: August 21/2017 to watch the solar eclipse! You might not be able to see the total eclipse, but even a partial eclipse will be amazing (and magical.)
Take social media breaks … not just for hours, but for days … gasp!! yes you can!!!
Switch up your photography style: if you do mostly still life, try capturing macros or landscapes or simply dreamy light. It takes the pressure off (if you put pressure on yourself :)
Make homemade ice cream (again, post coming soon) … this is life changing people ;)
Read a classic, but keep it simple. I picked up Classic Tales of Horror by Edgar Allen Poe and after reading one story, I found myself so intrigued I was searching online for answers … very stimulating. I’m still thinking about it.
Connect with someone you’ve lost touch with … it may change your life in positive ways you never dreamed possible.

So there you have it! My first of 4 (promised) posts for August.

I’m limping along here, but not giving up.

What Happened?

July 31, 2017 by Barb 27 Comments

Hello friends. It’s been a full two months since I posted on my blog. In seven years of blogging, that’s a first. What happened?

Well, I didn’t see June coming. June was definitely not the best month as we lost a treasured family member after a lengthy illness. But there were other things. Small things, bigger things … life.

I also had (have?) a slight problem with my blog and WordPress. After an update came down, every time I tried to write a post all I got was gobbledygook. My tech guy was not around and I felt defeated so I let things slide. All the doubts I have about blogging as in who cares? who’s reading? what do I have to offer? (on and on) were swirling around in my head.

I lost momentum.

Along came July and things improved. I could have written a list with 200 (or more) things I have to be thankful for. My life is good and rich and full.

And yet … I didn’t write a thing. I started to ruminate as to how us bloggers put so much of ourselves into our blogs. We share our recipes, our tips and tricks, and our life … and that makes us vulnerable (especially that life bit.) A simple gratitude list reveals so much! I’ve gone over a few of my gratitude posts and there’s a lot of personal information in those seemingly random lists. But that is the life of a blogger and we choose to share.

July came and July went.

So here we are at July 31st and and I’m back (at least for another month.) I know this for sure because I spent the last two weeks of July preparing 5 new posts! Ta da!

In order of appearance:

15 Ideas to Make Your August Amazing (a fav standby style of post)
All Things Ice Cream
Tips on Getting the Most out of your Local Greenhouses, Markets, and Eateries
Bella Grace Blog Hop (August 24) and a Giveaway!
That Chippy White Door I Found in Saskatchewan (a Reveal)

I’m hoping I can break through this blogging block with five simple posts and get back on my feet. Then I’ll be ready and full of enthusiasm when my favourite and most inspirational month of September rolls around.

But remember, even this veteran blogger doesn’t have it all figured out and I’m finding it increasingly hard to blog (and share) these days.

If you’re still with me … thank you from the bottom of my heart xo

Pretty Easy DIY Herb Pot

May 14, 2017 by Barb 4 Comments

Hello … I’m just popping in with a little Happy Mother’s Day wish, and an easy DIY herb pot using Mod Podge and wrapping paper.

mothers are like buttons
they hold everything together (perhaps like Mod Podge too ;)

This little pot of Lemon Thyme smells divine … I wish you could smell how truly lemony it is …
And how cute is that terra cotta pot?

After I opened a gift from my oldest daughter, I couldn’t stop admiring the soft tissue-like paper that it had been wrapped in. Rather than sending the pretty paper to the recycle bin, I used Mod Podge to adhere it to the pot. As you can see, I didn’t worry about wrinkles (wish I could say that about myself ;)

Pretty Easy DIY Herb Pot

Tear a piece of pretty wrapping paper or tissue paper the size of your chosen pot
Using a brush or sponge, apply Mod Podge to the entire outside surface of the pot
Place paper over the pot, gently smoothing into place, folding the edges underneath about 1/4 inch
Let dry completely
Using sandpaper, sand the top edge of the pot for a rustic finish
Plant herbs in a plastic container that fits inside the pot and place inside

If you enjoyed this post, you may also enjoy these:

: 31 Creative Ideas

: 30 Ideas to Make June Magical

: A Different Kind of Power

Be Fabulous, People!

May 5, 2017 by Barb 11 Comments

The other morning when I saw this quote, I felt it was really speaking to me:

Stay low, stay quiet, keep it simple, don’t expect too much, enjoy what you have
Dean Koontz

It was exactly how I was feeling as I set up my little tea-in-sunshine shoot …When we’re feeling hurt or vulnerable, staying low, quiet, and keeping it simple does have its merits. But … we mustn’t let it take hold. We mustn’t let it linger on too long.

Almost immediately my thoughts turned to Marianne Williamson and her “Course in Miracles” and I searched around for an anti-quote :)

We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, handsome, talented and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be?
Marianne Williamson

Today, my friends, go out and be fabulous!

If you liked this post, you might enjoy these inspirational posts:

♥

: Dealing With Distraction

: Plant Your Own Garden

: If I Waited

31 Creative Ideas to Inspire your Month of May

April 30, 2017 by Barb 7 Comments

Today I have a list of 31 creative ideas to inspire your month of May.

May is an exciting time for most of us in the Northern Hemisphere. Spring has arrived, the weather is warming up, and dreams of gardens and flowers are swirling around.

But … and it’s a big but … where I live, we can have frosts up until the end of May. If I dare put plants out before June, I can expect to be covering them or hauling them into the garage at least once and probably several times.

So what to do whilst waiting? Well, I came up with a list of things that could keep me busy and satisfied until the magic frost free-days arrive, and I thought I’d share it with you.

31 Creative Ideas to Inspire your Month of May

Visit greenhouses often and simply enjoy the ambiance. Don’t buy too much (or anything) before you can actually put plants outside safely. Exception: an herb pot…
… plant an herb pot ;) and keep it indoors until it can sit outside.
Clean debris from the garden, rototill, and make the edges as neat and straight as possible before the grass gets growing.
Plant spring bulbs (in the garden.)
Start spring bulbs indoors. This year I’ve started a few anemones, the really gorgeous colourful ones. They’re sitting on a sunny windowsill downstairs and I can’t wait to see what happens.
Wash and clean all garden pots so they’re ready when the weather is.
Set out garden ornaments.
Start a garden journal.
Attend gardening seminars or landscaping classes that may be offered in your area.
Purchase at least one great book on gardening. I have a series of gardening books that I refer to all the time by Lois Hole. They’re invaluable for my Zone 3a garden. I particularly love Perennial Favourites.
If you have rain barrels, clean and put them out. If you don’t have rain barrels, why don’t you?
Power wash your deck, veranda, garage pad.
Clean out closets and get rid of clothing you know you’re never going to wear!
Purchase a new outfit for spring/summer from a small store in your area (support local!)
Clean and put away all winter clothes, shoes, boots, mitts, scarves, hats. Like … see ya later eh!
Have a garage sale to clean out the clutter. At the end of the day have a give-a-way. Don’t take anything back into the house.
Make a flower press (before the garden gets growing.)
Sit in the sunshine. Just sit.
Unplug regularly. Perhaps even designate one social media-free day. Who knows what amazing things might happen …
Go on a road trip and make time to stop to take photos.
Take a friend or family member to lunch (preferably at a greenhouse :)
Walk, walk, walk. Just walk.
Wash windows. You just cannot beat that sparkly window feeling!
Buy a few new spring pillows and throws for your sofa.
Set up garden furniture and make repairs if necessary.
Make a wreath for your door. Gather twigs and add faux flowers. There are tons of ideas on Pinterest.
Fancy up some terra cotta pots using these ideas from Better Homes and Gardens.
If you have a mom, a grandma, or just know a mom … send them a Mother’s Day greeting.
Try a new salad recipe. Hopefully you’ll find a favourite combination of veggies and fruits you can use all summer (you might like to try my super simple Maple Walnut Salad Dressing.)
Clean your fridge, your stove, your barbeque … if you’d like some inspiring cleaning and organizing tips check my daughter’s blog here (it’s amazing!)
On rainy days or even snowy days, blog about what you’ve been up to.

So now I’m off to practice what I preach … I have a seething pile of questionable “collectibles” under the deck that needs to be dealt with :)

If you enjoyed this post, you may also enjoy these:

: Herb Garden Markers

: DIY Flower Press

: Upcycled Toolbox Planter

Women Who Love to Cook and Bake

March 14, 2017 by Barb 6 Comments

I come from a long line of women who loved to cook and bake, and I’m thrilled I was able to pass this love on to both my daughters and now to my granddaughter.

As for my granddaughter, the love was most likely passed on from her own mother (I’ll take a bit of credit) but, as my daughter says:

There’s a new dawn in my home and I’m in love with it. I have a daughter who loves to bake as much as I do. And this is amazing to me. I love that she wants to be in the kitchen and takes pride in her baking. But not only that, to have someone contributing to the meals and homemade snacks in our family takes such a load off of me. It has always been important to me that my family eats mostly homemade meals and baked goodies. It’s the way I was raised, so really it’s all I know.

Jo-Anna

Ya gotta love that …However, as I get a little older (ahem) I seem to have lost a bit of the zest for cooking and baking I once had … and I’m a bit sad about it. I think a lot of it has to do with having less energy, and having to decide where I want to spend that energy (maybe more on photography, or gardening?)

Whatever it is, the hubs and I still have to eat, and I want us to eat good, healthy, homemade food. Side note: that’s why I’ve created the new blog Sub-Category Cooking For Two where you’ll find goodies like my special Maple Walnut Salad Dressing, or the Freshest Turkey Soup Ever. And I do have some coping strategies (tip below*)

So when (in a very weak moment ;) I invited some friends over for brunch I started to panic a bit.

What the heck was I going to make? Oh, the bacon/sausage/egg part was easy. Ditto for the fruit salad. But I needed to have a bit of home baking (because my friend always does) and I was a bit bored with my trusty standbys like Buttermilk Oatmeal Muffins.

Then I remembered seeing some mouthwatering Morning Glory Muffins on my daughters blog, and ta da! Problem solved!

They were actually made and perfected by my granddaughter and I knew I couldn’t go wrong.

Coping Strategies*

Because our guests were arriving at 10:00 am and I knew I had lots to do, I prepared most of the muffin ingredients the night before. I measured the dry ingredients, sifted together the flour, sugar, baking soda, cinnamon, and salt. I shredded the carrots, toasted and chopped the nuts, and retrieved my homemade apple sauce from the freezer so it would thaw. Preparation is key, folks! I even set out the muffin tins and lined them with paper muffin cups.

I was up early the next morning and had them in the oven by 8:00 am. The house was filled with the scent of tantalizing freshly baked muffins, and I was pretty pleased with myself.

And the best part? I now have about a dozen muffins tucked away in the freezer for the hubs and I that I can pull out on a moments notice. The perfect strategy for cooking for two.

It also helps to have a man who tells you to get out of the kitchen so he can clean up! xo

International Women’s Day

March 8, 2017 by Barb 4 Comments

She made broken look beautiful
and strong look invincible.
She walked with the Universe
on her shoulders and made it
look like a pair of wings.
Ariana Dancu

Here’s to all the beautiful, brave women in my life xo

A Creative Retreat with Kim Klassen

February 27, 2017 by Barb 6 Comments

In June I’ll be heading to Brandon, Manitoba to attend the amazing creative retreat Finding Stillness | Summer 2017 with Kim Klassen.

It will centre around creative connection through still life styling, shooting and processing…..a gathering of like minded creatives… learning and growing together
Kim Klassen

This will be Kim’s third creative retreat, and the first one to be held in early summer. Just imagine. Just imagine the peonies … oh.my.oh.my.

Oh, dear. But first, let’s back up a bit … back to Finding Stillness |September 2016 (which I attended) and take a look-see as to what was still blooming in Manitoba at that time.

This little bouquet was one of the most photographed scenes at that retreat. A handful of sweet cosmos and delicate yarrow in a rusty bucket almost caused a stampede ;)

And then there was this absolutely stunning bouquet created by Irma of @prairieblossomboutique brought to us by her sister, the beautiful barista and photographer @simplyrosiephotography … insane … right?

Gah, I can’t even believe I was there …

But I was.

Creative Retreat, Finding Stillness 2016, Finding Stillness 2017, Barb Brookbank, Kim Klassen

Hand dyed linen by Aeleen Sclater

“lunch is served”

The retreat is not a formal workshop, but Kim is always milling around, ready to answer any and all questions regarding cameras, Lightroom, and living a creative life. I’ll never forget the first tip she gave me regarding camera settings … it probably seemed small to her, but to me it was like a lightbulb exploded in my head (true story!) and I’ve heard many people say the same thing.

As well, all the other attendees are more than willing to share their process (Kim’s vibe attracts her tribe) and it’s a very uplifting and supportive environment.

When I was asked to create a flat-lay and to share my process, I was more than happy to do so. There were no secrets after I was finished, and when I look back at this image I’m kinda blown away by it … the colours, the textures, the design. Yeah … I’m pretty chuffed ;) it’s one of my fav’s … and take a look at Kim’s props (that linen! swoon!)

It was interesting to see everyone else’s take on it (photos in gallery on IG)

Flatly by Barb Brookbank

To date, I haven’t shared much on my blog about the 2016 retreat. But from the moment I boarded that plane on my way to Brandon, and then to Rivers, and Kim’s studio, I felt as though I was living a dream. I was filled with excitement, anticipation, and a sense of pride. Never in my wildest imaginings did I think I’d be traveling across Canada to meet and mingle with like-minded creative souls, one of which was my oldest daughter, Jo-Anna from A Pretty Life in the Suburbs (but that’s a whole other post!)

I didn’t get as many people photos as I would have liked, but here’s a talented trio for you … friends forever …

Shelley Rounds, Kim Klassen, Aeleen Sclater

In the end, I’m mostly struck with how the positive energy and empowerment of a retreat continues for not just days, or weeks, but for years! and perhaps even a lifetime. And now, I can hardly believe I’ll be boarding that plane once again!

Finding Stillness | Summer 2017 here I come!!

Oh, and I think there are still some spots available (just sayin’ ;)

I do realize I’m very blessed to have the support and encouragement to keep on following my dream no matter what, so I’m sending much love and hugs to the hubs (my staunchest supporter xoxo).

*You can read my posts on Finding Stillness | Autumn 2015 Part I here, and Part II here. As well as how we were published in Mingle magazine in 2016 (a Stampington publication) here.

Meeting Online Friends: Making it Happen

January 26, 2017 by Barb 11 Comments

Meeting online friends these days has become pretty common … and when said new friend visits you in your home, you make lemon loaf, serve tea, and then you shoot it ;) (that is, if your new friend is a fellow photographer and lover of still life styling!)

Meeting online friends is easy ... serve tea and lemon loaf ...

I’m loving the new Lightroom presets by Kim Klassen. Today’s photo edited with kk_claro: click, boom!

I met Kathy @kpardell at #findingstillness2016 with Kim @kimklassen back in September and I was immediately struck by her enthusiasm and determination to learn everything she could; from styling, to photography, to editing. She was already styling beautiful images which I’d been noticing online in The Studio 2.0 and I was curious to discover who this new talent was!

So after a few days of getting to know her (in real life), and because she lives in the same province as I do, I invited her to come stay with me “someday”. Well, with Kathy Pardell “someday” is not a day of the week ;) quote by Denise Brennan-Nelson

As soon as I uttered the words, the wheels were in motion! So after spending several months trying to come up with a mutually agreeable date, we finally settled on a late January visit.

Suddenly, I was nervous. Very, very, nervous. I (would have said) Kathy and I are on opposite ends of the personality spectrum. Kathy being a Type A, and me being a Type B. And while there may be a bit of truth to that analysis, it certainly wasn’t a problem. We got along famously!

She arrived around noon so I had homemade soup simmering on the stove, ready to warm hearts and hands. A perfect way to break the ice!

I also had a lemon loaf I’d baked just that morning, so I suggested we use it to create a few still life images around two friends enjoying tea and cake. That kept us busy for hours … shooting, editing, and finally eating some of that yummy loaf.

After lunch we took a walk to soak up the bright January sunlight and work off a bit of the sugar high from the cake we’d eaten. I also wanted to give Kathy an idea of how I live—quietly, on the shores of a small lake, in a somewhat secluded area.

For dinner I made a simple salad (recipe to come later this week). I’d marinated a salmon, which I barbecued and served with asparagus and rice. Easy, but elegant.

With bellies full and feeling like we’d known each other for ages, we retired to the living room where we talked and talked: about food, photography, and life. We enjoyed tea, wine, and a roaring fire.

Yesterday I took her around to visit my favourite little stores: one a country store about 5 minutes from my home, and the other a junque store in a small town about 20 minutes away. A few purchases and a delicious lunch later, we headed back to relax for the evening (but not before a few more still life images were created and shot.)

Today I find myself alone at the kitchen table … basking in the beautiful sunlight pouring through the windows and thinking about this new world we live in; where meeting a new friend does not depend solely on geography. You can simply remain on-line friends (which is great), or when possible, you can take it to the next level and meet in real life … you just have to make it happen … because someday is not a day of the week.

This has been a bit of a ramble, I know, but I wanted to document our visit before the details fade into oblivion. I’m still in the processing stage … and writing this post has helped so much.

Click image to download.

**Word Art is for personal use only :)

Banish Those Winter Blues!

January 17, 2017 by Barb 24 Comments

I’ve finally come to the conclusion I’ve got a case of the winter blues, or blahs. Whatever you call it, I’ve got it. And the strange thing is I started writing this post on Blue Monday without even realizing it was Blue Monday. In case you haven’t heard of it:

Blue Monday is a name given to a day in January (typically the third Monday of the month) reported to be the most depressing day of the year. The concept was first publicised as part of a 2005 press release from holiday company Sky Travel, which claimed to have calculated the date using an equation (Wikipedia)

**The idea is considered pseudoscience, with its formula derided by scientists as nonsensical

No matter. I feel lethargic and irritable, and I’ve totally lost my mojo (which I find extremely distressing.)

And as usual I have that guilt trip going on in my head about how could someone with my life and privileges ever be depressed, and what could I possibly have to complain about? and on and on and blah blah blah. Well, what can I say, I don’t understand it either. But there you have it.

And it won’t just go away. Nope, not over night at any rate. And so, I must take action.

So what to do about these winter blues? Well, the first thing I do is admit it.

There was a day I thought if anyone knew I was feeling (blue, anxious, sad, or depressed) it would cause the earth to come off its axis and fly off into outer space. So I suffered in silence, and let me tell you that’s the worst thing you can do. NOTE: I’m talking about a blue funk here (if you think you’re suffering from something much more serious, please, get up off your chair, and go see your doctor.)

Tips on how to beat the winter blues

Recognize it. Talk about it. Admit it.
Exercise. Preferably outdoors. I was reading about SAD on WebMD, and one thing that really stuck out was how important exercise is (which I know) but also how important it is to go outside, preferably in the morning, and for at least 15 minutes. I did not realize time of day made a difference, but apparently it helps to reset your circadian rhythm.
Watch your nutrition. I’m still cleaning up snacks and sweets from Christmas! Time to purge the freezer and fill up the fruit bowl instead.
Drink lots of water. I know I’m dehydrated because my skin has become so itchy, my lips are cracked and my nose is dry.
Take care of yourself. Get a haircut, a massage, or a manicure. Or try a home Spa Day.
Keep in touch with family and friends. Now is not the time to hibernate.

One of the things that has really thrown me this month is that I don’t feel like creating.

Some days it’s simply too much effort to set up a scene to photograph, and the thought “I’m done” keeps rolling around in my head. But I don’t want to be “done” and so I show up.

Showing Up is how the photo for this post came into being. I showed up and did the work. I was happy with the results, but please be aware that I have a hundred photos I’m not thrilled with; quite the opposite actually. But I did manage to get this one image and it will find its way into my portfolio. That alone has lifted a bit of my creative funk.

So to finish, I want to share this quote by Ann Tyler. Such simple sentences, but so so powerful!

*for personal use only

Please help yourself … just click on the image to download :)

9 Tips For Navigating Craft Sales Like a Boss

November 26, 2016 by Barb 11 Comments

Who does not love to attend local craft sales, especially this time of year? I know I certainly do! And this year I decided to approach these craft sales in a totally different way. I wasn’t simply looking for treasures (although that was at the top of my list ;) I was looking for inspiration, I wanted to immerse myself in other peoples creativity, I wanted it to rub off on me.

At the top of my list of craft sales to attend this year was the Indie Handmade in St. Albert.

Because the sale wasn’t too busy when I arrived, I took the time to talk to the artisans. I simply asked a few questions about their product and they took it from there. Little did they know I wanted to hear not so much about the product, but how they felt about it. They couldn’t know I was soaking up their enthusiasm and joy … their passion.

I was soaking up some of their passion (sounds almost evil doesn’t it … but I assure you I am not evil ;)

Here are a few tips for navigating craft sales like a boss so that you can find what you want … whether it be treasures, or inspiration!

9 Tips for Navigating Craft Sales Like a Boss

Do a little research ahead of time: check out parking, admission, and hours of operation.
Go alone or with like-minded friends, people who don’t mind if you disappear and do your own thing. Keep in touch via texts as in “let’s go for coffee or a bite to eat.”
Attend opening day since it will likely get busier as the weekend progresses. I’m retired so I have that choice.
Arrive early.
Wear a light coat, comfortable footwear, and perhaps a scarf to keep neck and shoulders warm.
Carry a purse that isn’t too large or bulky. Consider using a backpack.
If the show isn’t too large, plan to walk around at least twice. If its really huge, make small purchases as you go, or make note of the booth and go back later. Many vendors will gladly hold your purchases until you are ready to pick them up.
Scan booths and stop only at the ones that most interest you. You literally don’t have all day … exhaustion will set in sooner rather than later.
Use cash as much as possible to help the vendor reduce their costs.

I almost passed by this young woman’s booth, thinking I was much too old for anything she was selling. But her sweet face and obvious talent drew me in … she reminded me of Kelly Rae Roberts and her “Wear Your Joy” series.

Tips for Navigating Craft Sales, Keeping With the Times

Meet Leonie of Maple and Oak Designs

So here are three vendors that inspired me enough to make a purchase:

Maple and Oak Designs
Funky fashion accessories.
Handmade from vintage, reclaimed and retro fabrics in Calgary, Canada.
Definitely unique and mostly one of a kind.

Yes, I bought a triangle scarf from Leonie; a young woman whose style is at least 40 years younger than mine! You just never know! Truly, keep your mind open people!

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The Collective Scribble
Create books that others are excited and proud to art journal, scribble, write, hope and dream in.

I not only purchased a journal from The Collective Scribble, I’m taking a book binding class from them in January.

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Shadowpots
Ruby is an Edmonton based Potter who is passionate about carbon-trapped Shino glazes, pushing the boundaries of firing in a gas kiln. Shino is one of the oldest glazes and demands diligence and patience to perfect.

Ruby’s pottery was exactly what I was looking for: unique, one-of-a-kind pieces made with love.

Next weekend: The Butterdome!

#NaBloPoMo

Supermoon 2016

November 14, 2016 by Barb 4 Comments

Supermoon 2016 … as observed from our balcony in Fountain Hills, Arizona on the evening of November 13th, 2016.

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#NaBloPoMo

Feeling Scattered

November 12, 2016 by Barb 4 Comments

This morning I was feeling a bit (no, a lot) like these flowers … scattered. Very, very scattered.

I was up early … as in 4:30 early, argh … . But what good is being up at 4:30 if all you do is sit and spin your wheels; as in your mind going in all directions?! Some directions good, some not so good.

I was having thoughts about the state of the world. Thoughts about a somewhat violent TV series we’ve been watching. Thoughts about several creative projects I need to get working on. Thoughts about updates for my blog; just on, and on, and on, and on … and there I sat, getting nowhere fast.

Then I remembered seeing a blog post on Kim Klassen’s site about “How to Be More Productive” and decided to go back and re-read it.

Let me tell you it was a God-send! And here I am at the end of a very busy day with one big project well on its way to being finished!

I’m feeling a lot calmer, and way more in control. For me, its all about the timer. Thank you, Kim for helping me get back on track.

I’m also extremely exhausted. It looks likes it’s going to be a bath and early to bed kinda night for me.

;)

#NaBloPoMo

What Sets Your Soul on Fire?

August 22, 2016 by Barb 6 Comments

What sets your soul on fire?

When presented with that question, I think we all assume we must come up with the most amazing and astonishing answer. But the truth is, we don’t. Maybe what sets your soul on fire is reading a good book (and having the time to do it.)Lots of things set my soul on fire … like a drive around the countryside listening to oven birds as they flit along a fence line, or the grasses as they sway in a gentle breeze.

One of the biggest things that sets my soul on fire is autumn and that “new beginning” feeling.

I know, it’s still mid to late summer and I don’t want to to rush it, but … I’m seeing slight changes in the landscape and feeling those old excited stirrings in my heart.

For me, autumn feels like a new beginning, and I suppose it harkens back to childhood; returning to school and the new clothes, shoes, books, and pencils it brought. Our family didn’t have a lot of money and any time we got new stuff it was a big deal.

I grew up on a farm and harvest was the biggest event of the year. I’m quite sure I picked up on the energy of my parents as they brought in the crops and put the grain safely away in bins. My mom would start baking bread, and hearty soups and stews. It was a satisfying time and I felt safe and secure.

So I’ve decided it’s time to craft an autumn bucket list of sorts … something like my 30 Ideas to Make June Magical post. I’d love it if you could join me (if only in your mind and on your private journal pages.) I’ll be posting mine in bits and pieces as we get closer to September.

And because I love quotes and word art, I’d love it if you could share some of your favourite quotes … and maybe, just maybe one or two will appear here as a freebie ;)

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I think this quote is by Jennifer Lee

Side Trip to Sisters Roadside Treasures

August 16, 2016 by Barb 10 Comments

This summer I was finally able to take a side trip to Sisters Roadside Treasures. I had three of our five grandchildren with me and they were as eager as I was to see it.

After turning off the highway, it was a short and pleasant drive down a gravel road, bordered on each side by gorgeous canola fields in bloom. When I first drove up to the hip-roofed barn, my jaw dropped! The huge front porch was filled to overflowing with so.much.stuff. Gasp!

And now, looking back … I’m wondering why did I not take more photos? I’m so disappointed in myself (that I might have to return ;) … but the photos of the kids with the barn kittens … now that I can’t recapture … major bummer.

All I captured was the car …

… and the kid capturing the van …He looks so comfortable with my phone (10 pics in 5 seconds comfortable :)

30 Ideas to Make June Magical

June 15, 2016 by Barb 18 Comments

Coming up with 30 ideas to make June magical may seem like a lot, especially since it’s already the middle of the month, but trust me, there’s still time to dream!I live on a small lake in the middle of the beautiful boreal forests of Central Alberta, Canada, and I draw inspiration from the natural beauty that surrounds me. As I type this post I’m listening to loons, geese, crows, and robins as they begin their day. It’s a regular cacophony!

It’s also pouring rain (again) for which I am always thankful! When you hear me say I’ve had enough rain, it will be time to get on the Ark ;)

For the last few years, I’ve primarily been a still life photographer, but there’s this other side of me that swoons over the dreamy, the impromptu, the unexpected.

Artful images that make my heart skip a beat when the light hits a subject a certain way, and reveals the magic in a seemingly ordinary moment.… or leads my eyes (and my thoughts) into the distance …

One of the things I want to see this month is fireflies flitting through the aspens. Little sparkles that, when you first see them, defy comprehension. The first time I saw these little miracles, I was incredulous. I stared into the darkness and laughed and pointed in amazement until I realized how many there were, then I fell silent and simply watched. And I want to see them again.

So here’s my list of ideas to make my June magical:

30 Ideas to Make June Magical

Watch fireflies on a warm evening.
Wear comfortable clothes that flatter and flow (maybe even a skirt)!
Explore the beautiful countryside where I live.
Photograph it’s beauty.
Spend an afternoon on a blanket spread out on the lawn, with only a stack of magazines and a cup of tea to keep me company.
Find a great used book store.
Take photos of fences, and barns, and cows.
Visit the Devonian Botanical Gardens. It’s a half hour drive from my home and I haven’t visited in years and years.
Spend as much time as I can in my garden. Maybe even stay out until dusk, coming inside just in time for a soak in the tub, and then to bed.
Photograph my garden in creative ways.
Have a campfire. Roast marshmallows.
Pick and arrange tiny bouquets from my back yard and garden.
Press flowers.
Snip a few peonies before they open and place them in a bag in the fridge to be brought out and enjoyed a few weeks later.
Use fresh herbs in all my cooking (I have tons of them growing in pots on my deck).
Eat extra fresh fruits and veggies.
Try a new recipe from one of my many beautiful cookbooks.
Sit on the dock early in the morning with a hot coffee and muffin (and maybe my hubby ;)
Take a slow boat ride around the lake, again with hot coffee and a muffin, and definitely hubby!
Say “no” to extra commitments.
Go to the local town garage sale (this weekend – woot)!
Keep my home clean and clutter-free (now that’s a dream).
Sit at the kitchen table one afternoon with tea and a beautiful magazine. Watch the leaves on the aspens shiver in a light breeze.
Have a pedicure.
Get a haircut.
Dream about a few classes I want to take this fall. Actual “in-person” classes. Maybe even book one or two.
Sleep in as much as I can. I’m such an early riser, so a lazy morning is truly special.
Have the occasional glass of wine … preferably red.
Eat dinner outside.
Put up patio lights.

I invite you to make a list of 30 things you want to experience this June. They don’t have to be big, earth shattering moments … keep it simple, and think magical.

Imagine … if you dream of 30 things, and 15 or even 10 come true … what will that feel like when the calendar turns to July? Pretty fabulous I’m betting!

*This post was inspired by my Bella Grace Instagram takeover earlier this month.

Trying to Stay Positive

May 27, 2016 by Barb 13 Comments

If you could see me, and my days, the title of this post “trying to stay positive” would seem ludicrous. My life is good, and rich, and happy.

Trying to Stay Positive, Keeping With the Times

The one lone lilac image I captured this year …

It’s just … that I’ve been too busy. Too on the go. I feel overwhelmed and discombobulated.

I look at emails in my inbox and my eyes glaze over. I see the mountainous pile of laundry and my heart pounds (can I not just throw it all out?) I look at my garden and think “I’ll never get a handle on this.” I think about capturing a photo for Instagram, or writing a blog post, and I freeze. My friends have been wanting me to go for a walk for weeks (and I’ve been declining.)

This morning I woke up (with the robins) before 5:00, and started thinking about the days I could hardly wait to get to the computer, or the camera, and I started wondering … what is going on here? It has me a bit concerned. But then I poured a coffee and went and sat on the deck for a bit. I listened to the birds, checked the rain gauge (more rain!) and marvelled over the incredible green wall of trees that surrounds our yard.

I began thinking about this coming summer, and how I want to spend it. It’s right on the doorstep and I’m not ready.

More and more my heart is telling me that I just want to “be”, but what that looks like, I’m not sure. The one thing I do know is that I can do whatever I want. I just need to get some laundry done, and stay positive.

Fountain Hills Lake Overlook Trail

April 12, 2016 by Barb 9 Comments

It wasn’t a stellar start to a Monday. Yesterday both the hubs and I woke up a bit off … one has a cold, and two couldn’t sleep because of it.

After a stand-offish first cup of coffee, we decided to go out and make the best of the day (I mean we’re in Arizona, the skies are stunningly blue, and the temperatures are divine.)

So it was off to Mountainview Coffee to see how the new owners are doing. As it was, there were a few glitches (no internet, and they seemed to be out of all menu items.) It was also hot indoors so we picked up our cups and went and sat on the patio. Duh. Instant mood boost.

But … uh, oh. Out comes a very toxic mother/daughter duo who plunked down at the table right beside us. It was impossible to ignore them. I won’t go into detail but the daughter was treating her mother with the utmost disrespect, and the mother was on oxygen and looked like she was on death’s door. After a bit I whispered “let’s go” to the hubs who looked like he was about to say something. Oh.my.gah.

When we got to the car we had quite the discussion; both agreeing how terrible the whole situation was. I even used the word abuse. Perhaps elder abuse? Mother abuse? Even so, you really never know what brings people to behave so badly. We certainly don’t know their background and unless someone gets physical, I’m of the mind to let it be. Hubby is not so clear … he may have finally had to speak. What do you think? Would you have said something? I just don’t know what 5 seconds of a stranger’s (surely unwanted) advice is going to accomplish.

Anyway, onwards and upwards (literally) as we took the short 1.5 mile hike “Fountain Hills Lake Overlook Trail“. We’re so glad to have discovered this little gem! The views are spectacular …
… and yes the photos are a bit cra**y since I only had my phone and I wasn’t taking a lot of care, but lately I’ve decided that just capturing the moment is enough. And talk about moments! we ran across this Argentine Giant in full bloom (down at the Fountain). It was positively stunning, and they only bloom for a few hours! What luck for us that we ran across it. So what started out as a not-so-great day turned out to be pretty awesome. We just had to make it happen.

Be kind whenever possible.It is always possible.

Dalai Lama

A Different Kind of Power (and a giveaway)

March 18, 2016 by Barb 60 Comments

I’ve always had a pretty healthy outlook on aging. Growing up, I had an amazing role model in my Mom who insisted that for her, growing older was not a bad thing. She was a no-nonsense woman, and I can still hear her saying “for the most part, I’ve been healthy. I have all my senses, I don’t get headaches, I’m quite agile, and I’ve lived a good life.”

Even after everything life threw at her, she was quietly defiant, completely unapologetic, and fiercely independent right to the end, and I loved her.

For years I was greatly influenced by my Mom’s positive outlook, and other than a few minor glitches I felt quite well-adjusted.

Turning 50? no problem … what’s the fuss about?
55? … still OK …60? … hmmm, now you’re getting my attention! I’m not sure I like the way my body is behaving. It used to let me garden from sunup to sundown (not just from 10:00 am to noon.) My knees and hips didn’t hurt when I got out of a chair.

It used to let me eat whatever I wanted without causing some kind of discomfort, and when I looked in the mirror, I didn’t used to cringe a bit. Mom didn’t talk about this.

A Different Kind of Power, Keeping With the Times, Barb Brookbank

Photo: Barb Brookbank, Lightroom Preset: kk_Soft_Light Kim Klassen

As a blogger, I’m often reluctant to reveal my age. I don’t know why. If people like what I post, age shouldn’t matter. Just don’t expect any goofy selfies here … oh wait … maybe one!

… because I’ve always wanted to do this …

I’ve come to learn that life is about letting go. As a mom I’ve had to let my children go as they started kindergarten, went through school, university, and eventually made their own lives and built their own families. I’ve had to let go of my position as the centre of their universe.

Now I’m having to let go of my youth and all the beauty, power, and dreams that that magical era brought with it (avoiding a mirror helps.)

Photo: Barb Brookbank, Lightroom Preset: kk_DarkDay Kim Klassen

I often feel as if I’m drifting down a river, knowing I’ll never see the same scenery again. But that’s what makes life more beautiful and precious than I could ever have imagined when I was in my 20’s, 30’s, or even 40’s.

Photo: Barb Brookbank, Lightroom Preset: kk_Chocolate Kim Klassen

And something in me has shifted. I’m able to sift and sort through life’s curveballs, figuring out what I have control over and letting the rest go.

It comes from years of experience and a “been there done that” sort of attitude. I don’t mean to sound uncaring, I’m not. But instead of trying to control every situation (like I used to) I watch and wait and let it unfold. I’ll say what I think (or not) and let whatever is happening take its course, remembering I’m not responsible for every single thing that swirls around me on a daily basis. However, if it’s something that hurts me and is about me, I’m not going to sit there and say it’s OK. Nope. You’re going to get a blast.

It truly is rather freeing.

“It’s this freedom that’s the key to becoming visible again.
Not caring what others think is freeing.
Expressing yourself any way you want is freeing.
Having opinions, emotional wisdom, spiritual understanding…these things free you.
And in freedom, we find power.”
Jane Tara, The Happy Endings Book Club

Photo: Barb Brookbank, Lightroom Preset: kk_Midnight Kim Klassen

GIVEAWAY!

This post is part of the Grace Notes blog hop. Grace Notes is the new blog companion to the stunning and inspirational Bella Grace magazine. Much like the magazine, Grace Notes is devoted to discovering life’s ordinary magic.

I adore this magazine and am thrilled to be able to host a complimentary give-away of Bella Grace magazine Issue 7!

Simply leave a comment saying you’d like to win this copy, and perhaps share a personal story of how you deal with change.

Here on my blog the competition is open world-wide—yay!

Contest closed Thursday, March 31st.

My View, Right Here, Right Now

February 8, 2016 by Barb Leave a Comment

I’ll be back tomorrow ;)

Day 8 of blogging every day in February

Are You Listening?

February 7, 2016 by Barb 9 Comments

I had an encounter the other day that was so subtle, in a room of 5 other people, only I noticed.

Perhaps I’m being overly sensitive, but I think not …

Are you Listening?, Table and Chair, Barb Brookbank, Keeping With the Times

My image, shot at Kim Klassen’s Studio in Rivers, Manitoba, Canada. Preset: kk_Lilly

As I said, a group of people, who are also my friends, were visiting us in our home. They are all good people whom I like, but the person I was speaking to was really what I’d call an acquaintance. Making small talk, he asked what I did while hubby golfed. Well, I stammered around a bit and then remembered one of the things I do is I indulge my passion of photography. So I told him I loved photography, and spent a lot of time taking and editing photos.

He then told me how his wife loved photography too. As I was truly interested, I asked what she liked to take photos of. Well, she loves to take shots of nature, you know, landscapes, etc. etc.

This is where my sweet hubby mentioned that I have a blog, and share a lot of photos on it. It fell on deaf ears. He immediately mentioned his wife has a Facebook page where she posts her photos.

I then (quite out of character) offered to give him one of my cards so she and I could connect. But he simply said, well, I’ll give you one of my cards, which he proceeded to do. I took it and thanked him.

Fast forward to this morning. The hubs asked me if I was going to send my info to this person and I said, oh, probably not … . When he asked me why not, I had a hard time explaining. I had to think about it for a bit … and this is what I said:

I won’t be sending him my info because it feels hollow. He did not acknowledge my blog, and when I offered him one of my cards (which btw are artful cards made from my IG account), instead he wanted me to take one of his cards and, I guess, get back to him. Ummm … no. But thank you anyway.

I get that people are proud of their (or their spouse’s) accomplishments, and want to share them. Goodness knows I do!

But even if your end game is to show off your stuff, at least have the courtesy to pretend you’re interested in what the other person is saying. Or, hey! BE interested in what someone else is saying. How about it? do you think he was listening?

Day 7 of blogging every day in February.

My First 5 Steps Toward Living an Artful Life

February 5, 2016 by Barb 10 Comments

I woke up feeling rested and happy this morning … so much better than yesterday where I woke up wired and tired.

And today I removed something from my life that was not serving me well, in fact it was making me forget who I am. So, out of this experience came my first 5 steps toward living an artful life.

I won’t go into detail because it was such a small thing (in the grand scale of things) like really, really small, but it was sucking the fun out of one of my greatest joys … photography. So after a particularly restless night, I decided to remove the offending “thing” from my life. I always knew it was toxic, but just wasn’t prepared for what it was doing to me … . anyway, it’s gone now, and I feel so much better.

I’ve also been reading my new book “Living Artfully” by Sandra Magsamen. I’m quite sure I’ll be quoting her often in the next year, as she writes so eloquently and seems to speak directly to me:

Living Artfully is about creating a life worth celebrating, worth remembering.

Sandra Magsamen

OK … did she say celebrating?

Goodness, I can’t seem to get away from that word! and indeed, why should I try? Looks like I’m going to have to keep it around, after all :)

I thought by making lists, it would help on my quest to live an artful life. So here are the first 5 steps I’ve chosen:

Be yourself. Everyone else is already taken. (Oscar Wilde)
If something is not serving you well, remove it from your life.
Be honest. Be honest with yourself.
Create from the heart.
Play. Experiment. Trust.

Know exactly what you want to focus on.

Day 5 of blogging every day in February.

Intentions for 2016

January 22, 2016 by Barb 12 Comments

It’s time to set my intentions for 2016.

I mean … January is almost over! How did that happen!? But not to worry, I’ve been puzzling over this for quite some time and I think I have some answers.

As I was reluctant to let go of my word for 2015 (which was “celebrate”) I became stuck. It was exactly what I needed at the time, but now it feels old.

So, my apologies “celebrate” I’m leaving you … and it’s not me, it’s you. Oh, and if it helps, I haven’t left you for another word, I’ve left you for a quote. A quote that’s been sticking in my head for a couple months and won’t go away. I wrote about it in November when I posted My Art is not Frivolous.

I want to live my life as artfully as possible, and I think it’s going to take me a full year to discover exactly what that means. Oh, I do love a challenge! and I think the possibilities are endless.

Today I’ll reveal some of my intentions. Others I’ll keep closer to my h(art.)

Quote by Henry Miller

It all kind of came together when I created this image for the new class Be Still | One Year [Wiser] with Kim Klassen.

In December Kim and I had been discussing how much stuff we had and I was complaining about all the time I spent organizing it. As a still life photographer, props can take over your life (if you let them.) Now don’t get me wrong, I love my props. But added to all my usual props, I was hoarding many plants from summer that I couldn’t seem to let go. Ferns, succulents, ivy (which all need watering, pruning, and transplanting, as well as a sunny place to sit.)

Then I heard myself explaining how one day I was in Home Depot and I spied some unusual and perfect succulents, and I ended up buying four! When one would have been enough … or maybe none … especially in winter. What was I thinking? Well, I’d have to say I wasn’t.

I went on to divulge that I’d also been to Winners that day and had gone around gathering stuff … like there was no tomorrow (this is a bit embarrassing) but it was all so inspiring and tempting. New props, new photography opportunities.

I paid for everything, watched the clerk wrap it carefully, and carried several bags out to my car. When I got home, rather than making a simple cup of tea and sitting for a moment, I had to unwrap it all and then find a place for everything. That for me is the worst part. Finding a place for everything. I suddenly felt overwhelmed to the point of exhaustion. Really, Christmas was coming and I had more important things to be doing. I decided right then and there that I had to turn this around. I packed everything up, made sure I had my receipt, and returned it all the next day.

As I was explaining this to Kim, she was flabbergasted, since she had been feeling the same way. So, to make a long story a bit shorter ;) we made a pact to avoid Winners for the entire month of January, and so far I haven’t been in one since that fateful day in December. I extended my vow to include any and all similar stores (and I know the ones.)

So what does this have to do with my intentions for 2016? Well, here are a few:

I will avoid Winners completely until the end of February. Baby steps. If I say I’ll never go back, well … you know … .
I will carefully consider where and when I spend my money and my energy.
If I bring something home, something has to go.
I will live my life artfully. I’m not 100% sure what that means but I am going to find out.

I’m finally coming back to life after the Christmas holidays, a very busy January, and a bout with the flu.

I suddenly feel revitalized, and am excited about 2016 and all that it may bring. To start with, I have a small blogging announcement (in my next newsletter.)

I hope you stay with me this year as I go about discovering how to “make living itself an art” and reveal more of my intentions.

Midwinter Getaway in Banff

January 14, 2016 by Barb 13 Comments

I’ve just enjoyed a little midwinter getaway in Banff, Alberta.

Over the years I’ve accompanied hubby on countless business trips. I’ve travelled with him from one end of Canada to the other (and back again.) We’ve hit every major city and some not-so-major cities. I feel quite blessed to have had the opportunity to explore Canada this way—while staying at the best hotels.

This week we’re at the Fairmont Banff Springs Hotel in Alberta. We’ve stayed here a few times but it just never gets old. Simply exploring the “castle” is enough, but throw in Willow Stream Spa and Afternoon (High) Tea and it’s nothing short of luxurious.

I’m not shy about exploring or eating by myself when hubby is in meetings (who has time for that?) so yesterday when I decided to enjoy the ritual of afternoon tea, I requested a large table, in a corner, with windows on both sides …
I didn’t want to bother the waiter so I took these photos myself … balancing my camera against my chin as I poured tea (hoping it would hit the strainer … and for the most part, it did!)
I really wanted to spread all the delicacies across the table amongst the teacups, linens, and silverware.

My plan would have been to stand on a chair and take a top-down ;) but for the most part I simply sat and drank my tea(s) while eating fruit, delicate sandwiches, scones, cakes, cookies, and profiteroles while enjoying the view …

After a couple of hours I asked the waiter to pack up the leftovers and I headed back to my room. Needless to say, I skipped dinner last night :)

Today we’re heading home for one night and then we’re off to Quebec … I’m hoping to be able to share a bit of that as well.

Have a lovely day!

Snowy Days and Snowy Nights

January 9, 2016 by Barb 9 Comments

Snowy days and snowy nights.

Teeny, snow-covered trees.

Roaring fires.

These are some of the things I love about where I live.

After Christmas I moved my little Charlie Brown trees outside, and set them on a barn wood table on the deck.

I was thoroughly enjoying the view … and then it snowed; light, feathery flakes, drifting slowly downward, settling on the branches and catching in the birch logs I’d propped up beside the table.
… be still my heart … it takes nothing more than a tiny branch, a tin can, and some snow to make me happy …

I store a bit of wood in a rustic old crate for use in our fireplace. It’s much more convenient than what we did last winter, which was stack it out of sight on the side of the house. It was the biggest pain ever to go out and get, which resulted in less fires.

But now … I don’t want to disturb it ;)
What do you love about where you live?

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Snippets of our Christmas 2015

January 6, 2016 by Barb 13 Comments

Hubby and I hosted Christmas this year and our whole family was able to celebrate together.

Today I thought I’d share a few images, and perhaps it will help me move on. Anyone else feeling stuck? I have lots of ideas swirling around in my head, but all I seem to be able to focus on is cleaning and organizing my house. I guess it’s what I need right now. A clean slate.

So for now, here’s a snippet of our holiday …

the staged …

the reality …

… the even more reality …

We had a blast ;)

My Art is not Frivolous

November 25, 2015 by Barb 22 Comments

I often wonder why I do what I do, and is it frivolous?

frivolous \

of little weight or importance
lacking in seriousness
irresponsibly self-indulgent

I puzzle over why I get up in the morning so eager to set up a still life and take photos …

But it seems I’ve been staging “still life” images my entire life. To me “still life is real life is still life.” To have a chippy chair sitting in the dining room, an apron draped over the top, and treasured linens stacked on the seat is calming. And those poppy seed heads … I grew them, I picked them, and I dried them. What is more real than that?

Right from our first apartment I’ve decorated my home; from the kitchen, to the living room, to the bedroom. I’ve always liked to surround myself with pretty things and while the objects have changed over the years, the passion has not … in fact it has grown to such proportions I can hardly contain myself. And it’s because I now love photography.

I can no longer dismiss this (photography) passion as “frivolous“. It’s become as much a part of my life as creating a comfortable home for my self, my husband, and my children and grandchildren. It’s as important as a home-made meal … as important as freshly baked cookies coming straight out of the oven … and as important as a bouquet of wildflowers sitting on the windowsill for no other reason than to delight the senses.

It’s as important as anything I do because it fills me up, and then spills over into my life.

It gives me purpose at a time when I could be feeling lost. I could be stressing over the fact that I’m aging and my face and body are definitely not what they used to be. But I don’t have time. Where would I find the time to stand in front of the mirror agonizing over sags and wrinkles when there’s a still life waiting to be brought into the world? Oh, and before I bring that still life into the world, I may have to bake something, or paint a background, or find the perfect new semi-opaque curtains for the dining room … the list is endless.

And I mustn’t trivialize the fact that I’ve spent over six years learning how to use a dslr so that I may bring these images to life in as creative a way as possible. I can’t count the hours I’ve spent learning this craft … and I cannot think of one other thing in which I’ve invested so much of my time and effort (unless it’s my blog.)

That’s why the quote by Henry Miller spoke to me … it sums up how I want to live my life. I want to live as artfully as possible … and that’s not frivolous.

#stilllifeisreallife @stilllifeisreallife

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